What is soft swinging?

"Soft swinging" is a term used to describe a type of consensual non-monogamous relationship where partners explore intimacy and sexual activity with others, but with a strong emphasis on emotional connection, communication, and safety. It's distinct from more purely sexual "swinging" in its focus on relationship building and emotional intimacy within and beyond the primary partnership.

Key characteristics often associated with soft swinging include:

• Emphasis on emotional connection: The focus isn't solely on the physical act, but on the emotional bonds between all involved individuals. Relationships are built with care and consideration.
• Communication and negotiation: Open and honest communication is paramount. Partners openly discuss their desires, boundaries, and expectations. Consent is constantly reaffirmed.
• Safety and respect: Safe sex practices are meticulously followed. Respect for all participants' boundaries and comfort levels is prioritized above all else.
• Relationship-focused: Even when engaging with others sexually, the primary relationship remains the central focus. The goal is often to enhance, rather than replace, the primary bond.
• Variety of practices: The specific activities engaged in can vary widely, from cuddling and kissing to more intimate sexual acts. The level of intimacy is negotiated and agreed upon by all involved.

It's crucial to understand that soft swinging, like any form of non-monogamy, requires significant communication, trust, and maturity. Misunderstandings and hurt feelings can arise if these elements are lacking. Many couples find it beneficial to discuss their expectations and boundaries with a therapist or counselor before exploring this lifestyle. The term itself is somewhat fluid, and individual couples' interpretations and practices may vary.